Post by healthy11 on Jan 19, 2019 12:53:47 GMT -5
www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/12-things-parents-raising-children-202559961.html
This article shares more than a dozen insights into the types of things that can help kids on the spectrum thrive. For example,
"You focus on what he does right — you celebrate what you want to see and you calmly teach what he has yet to master. You instinctively know that reprimanding him does harm and causes him deep pain. You know that ‘No” is a trigger and you find other ways to give that response. An example of a positive approach that might prevent a problem versus a wrong approach that is likely to escalate him: “You love that iPad and you get to play again at 4:00, honey.” Instead of, “No, you cannot keep playing on the iPad. Time is up. Put it away.”
This article shares more than a dozen insights into the types of things that can help kids on the spectrum thrive. For example,
"You focus on what he does right — you celebrate what you want to see and you calmly teach what he has yet to master. You instinctively know that reprimanding him does harm and causes him deep pain. You know that ‘No” is a trigger and you find other ways to give that response. An example of a positive approach that might prevent a problem versus a wrong approach that is likely to escalate him: “You love that iPad and you get to play again at 4:00, honey.” Instead of, “No, you cannot keep playing on the iPad. Time is up. Put it away.”